Are you ready to discover your lover’s real sexual nature? Find out if he’s really gay and own your own sexuality with our 5 hot and daring steps to testing his gayity. We invite you to a sizzling journey of homoerotic exploration where the only limits are those you set for yourself. Get ready to unleash your innermost desires and enjoy compelling sensuality and boldly sexual intensity.
1. Dip His Toes Into New Seas of Queerness
Unlock His Queerness: There’s a whole world of queer experiences beyond what he’s explored already. Introduce him to new waves of queerness, from discovering his turn-ons to having his first threesome.
- Kink exploration:
Introduce him to BDSM and enhance playtime with costumes, paraphernalia and toys. - Group play:
Suggest a threesome with someone you both find trust-able. Build a safe space of comfort and consent for a wild night. - culture: Attend a queeried event at a club or a gay bar where he can be himself and explore his queer identity surrounded by like-minded individuals.
- No shame: No matter what he loves, show him how sexy it is to let go and embrace his desires.
Take Risk Together: Whatever he’s into, never stop supporting each other, make sure that it stays fun. Encourage him to take a risk and step outside his comfort zone. Be there to have his back and show him that his queer journey is exciting, not intimidating. You don’t just have to talk about whips, chains, sex clubs and fantasies; there are plenty of ways to dive into queerness as a couple.
- Mix and mingle: Invite other couples to join you and exchange stories and ideas on queer bliss!
- Spend time online: Explore the virtual world of queer dating, porn, and resources to inspire you.
- Expertise: Take a class or workshop on topics that interest both of you.
Hire a professional: Spice up intimacy with a professional sex worker like a dominatrix or a male escort. - Indulge in Reading: Get some erotic queer literature to push the boundaries of his imagination.
2. Five Frenzy Fuelled Ways To Tease His Gayity
1. The Velvet Rope Effect
Send your guy reeling with pleasure by engaging in a bit of light bondage. Slip a velvet rope or soft velvet ties around his wrists to entice him and restrain him while you pleasure his body. Use a feather-light caress to drive him wild with anticipation and tweak his nipples or trace his body with your fingertips, pausing just before he expects it to drive him into a frenzy of arousal.
2. Creamy Comfort
Have some fun with food by covering your guys body in something creamy like a chocolate sauce or whipped cream. You can lick and nibble away at the delicious treats while you explore his body. Try using some of his favorite treats like honey to enhance the pleasure and make sure to tantalize all of his erogenous zones.
3. Ooh So Sensual
Show him your soft and sensitive side by engaging in some slippery oil massages. Guiding your hands across his body, glide lightly over his skin using a portion of warm oil. Shift back and forth between light and strong pressure to keep him on the edge, but be sure to always maintain a slow and sensual pace.
4. Blinded By Passion
If your guy is adventurous they may appreciate being blindfolded in the pursuit of heightened sensations. Blindfolding him will heighten his other senses, so you can take advantage of it and use gentle licking and sucking along with an array of different sensations such as feathers, silk, and ice cubes to tease and tantalize him.
5. Get Vocal
Don’t be afraid to let your guy know exactly how you feel and want to pleasure him. There’s nothing like an outrageous compliment coupled with a guttural moan from his lover to make him want to do it all over again. Don’t be shy about it; let him know what you’re doing and how good it feels to you.
3. Unleash His Non-binary Urges with Our Sexy Steps
Step 1. Let go of gender labels.
Allow yourself to start exploring your inner desires without the limitation of gender definitions. We often see ourselves through the limited lens of the gender we were born with. But to truly unleash your non-binary urges, you need to let go of this idea: try to think of yourself as a genderless being and tap into your delicious sexual potential.
Step 2. Fuel your fantasies.
Populate your mind with imaginary situations and explore what those scenarios stir inside you. Follow your instincts and allow yourself to indulge in scenarios that bring your inner urges to the surface. Pay attention to your body language and facial expressions, as these cues can help you identify which fantasies you like the most and that can be explored with a partner if you wish to.
Step 3. Experiment with a partner.
Once you familiarise yourself with the possibilities of non-binary urges, it’s time to experiment in a safe environment! If desired, you can find a partner that can join in the fun and explore gender-fluid roles and behaviours. Go as far as you feel comfortable, keeping in mind that the perfect partner should respect and be understanding of your boundaries.
4. Let His Libido Lead the Way to Sexual Liberation
Breaking Away from Social Expectations
- Part of the beauty of gay sexual liberation is the freedom to define your own boundaries and terms.
- Instead of attempting to strive for a socially-acceptable sexual relationship, let your libido be your guide to liberation.
- Throw off the shackles of societal expectations and explore the boundaries you define for yourself as an individual.
Exploring a New World of Sexual Possibilities
- Finding the strength and courage to open yourself up to the possibilities of true sexual expression can be extremely rewarding.
- From engaging in a raunchy threesome, to exploring fetishes, nothing is off the table.
- Consider setting yourself free in sensual rites of sexual pleasure that defy the mainstream expectations, and surrender to your inner desires.
- The freedom to experience a sexual expression to its fullest, is your reward.
In Conclusion
Fear not! Our five-step program will take you on a tantalizing journey of unlockable pleasures, proving that it doesn’t take much to make a man feel oh-so-good. Remove the shame and stigma from your sensual desires, and open your heart to the electrifying pleasure of unlocking your partner’s true desires. Let our uncensored, homoerotic and graphic intensity guide you on a journey to discover the depths of your partner’s sexuality, free of judgement and inhibition. Live boldly and revel in the deliciousness of sensuality.
